Been a tough few weeks. I lost another friend.
This time it was my wife’s aunt Carolyn. And at times, my
partner in crime.
Aunt Carolyn was always the one who could tell a joke and
laugh at one.
She always “got” my sarcasms and when I was around her I
never felt alone, or like I was the only one in left field. She was always in
left field with me, or maybe I was in left field with her. We caught a lot of
balls together and threw a lot of runners out at third.
She said what she thought, and sometimes she said things to
see what others thought. Call it a poke, a jab, or whatever. You had to be on
your toes around her.
She made me laugh, some of the things she said. She had
timing.
And she was tough. All the Robinsons are tough. And what
makes them so tough is that they are always honest. Carolyn was no exception.
She loved life. Something that is not always easy for
someone like me. She didn’t love life like a witty quote. She loved it because
she enjoyed it. I looked up to that. She always had a gleam in her eye that was
a reflection of the world around her.
This spring she won’t be calling me for honey before the
bees come out of their hive. She won’t send me $5.00 and I won’t send it back.
One year we traded that $5.00 for maybe three times before she gave up…until
the next year when she sent a $10.
The last time I saw her she lifted up her head and smiled.
She lifted her hand and pointed her finger at me. It had the little red light
on it – the one that is wired to the monitor. She shook it at me and said
“You…you...it’s you…” That little red light pointing at me like a bouncing flash
light. All I could do was smile. For a half hour I sat near her. Both of us in
left field, throwing to third.
It would be our last throw.